will love finds its way?
I'm blessed to have you in my life, even though were miles apart I can feel you, but is there any love that we are waiting for after all the caring, trust and understanding?
if its you! i will never let you go!I will love you for the rest of my life.
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
He Loves me ? or He Loves me not ?
Ive been so confused this past few days, figuring out what he really feels for me. He's like a mushroom who suddenly appear in the least expected day! Love is truly a magical feeling. for our first meeting, I was really surprised when he asked me " If you dont mind asking how young you are? " - he asked me at the corner when everybody is busy taking pics and followed a question " do you have a boy friend?" as far as I remember. I answered him that Im single. from our first meeting during their island hopping, he sat in front of me and ask some questions which i have forgotten because I was looking in his eyes and finding out if we have magic, i felt happiness in my heart and my mind began imagining if I was her girlfriend? He left me at the sit and when he returned he has this bracelet made of special stone, he bought it for me. ( we have the same color of bracelet ). I saw him looking at his cellphone, i told him to turned it off because he is in vacation. he looked at me and smiled. :-). when we are on our way to the wharf his mom looked my eyes and said " darling you have a beautiful brown eyes ". I have this feeling that somebody is listening to us then I turned my head and we bump each others eyes and I was so shy that time and my statement goes like " Your mom told me i have a beautiful brown eyes and he smiled and said yes. Then the next day after our tour her mom invited me to have dinner with them. I was at the lobby waiting for them. I saw him in his computer, He asked me if I want to work in manila and if Im interested to work in their company. he also asked me if its ok with me to leave Palawan? He also offered me his condo if Im in manila I can stay in Pasig. very kind and generous man !
now Im confused !
now Im confused !
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Whenever I'm checking your facebook account , I feel that I know u so well, and that your so close to me. hayyy! what is this I'm going through.... can we just simply love each other
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Money Matters !
u provided all the good things in life for your family , while we sacrifice isn't unfair?
In spite of what you have done to us, I prayed that you will have a better life ahead so that it wont happened to anybody !
God Help her !
In spite of what you have done to us, I prayed that you will have a better life ahead so that it wont happened to anybody !
God Help her !
Accredited !
Hey, finally i have my licensed for tour guiding!
This is what you call blessings from up above, Thank you Lord !
I am very happy !!!!!!!!
This is what you call blessings from up above, Thank you Lord !
I am very happy !!!!!!!!
Thursday, December 2, 2010
I feel Alone !
I wonder how does it feel to have someone beside you ? I feel so alone .. I hope ryan would pursue me please lord if he is the one then let me know give me signs
VIP GUESTS!
It was November 27, 2010
I woke up past 8am, the television is opened and ready for movie marathon.
Jona called me up, asking a big favor to be the guide of the hotel VIP Guest, I was having a a 2nd thought of not getting the job, because I want to have a rest, but I dont know what made me say yes to her. I found out myself in the tricycle heading to the airport to fetch the guest, at the airport I saw the Tour manager he was so busy and too awkward to approach him so what I did is I made myself busy too. by checking the van and looking for the VIP's. inside the van I feel so nervous and cold because I feel that I was being graded by the tour manager. I met Francis, Mam Glo, Ryan and Jmar francis friend. The VIPS are really nice, approachable ang down to earth. upon arrival we are schedule have our Honda Bay Island Hopping Tour! at the wharf Ryan asked me How old Iam ? Hmmmm... ( just wondering why did she asked me ) the exact words were " If you dont mind me asking , how young are u ?" I looked him in his eyes to know if there's a magic between the two of us. ( yes there is ! ). Then when we reached at the island He asked me if I have boyfriend ? I answered him back that Im available ! hahhahahaha :-). he was also offering me a job if incased I changed my mind and he was also offering his condo in pasig. he was so generous. He was also asking me if I have a sun cellular because of unlimited call and txt but unfortunately i dont have sun. Does he likes me to? I hope he does ! I hope his the one ! :-)
I woke up past 8am, the television is opened and ready for movie marathon.
Jona called me up, asking a big favor to be the guide of the hotel VIP Guest, I was having a a 2nd thought of not getting the job, because I want to have a rest, but I dont know what made me say yes to her. I found out myself in the tricycle heading to the airport to fetch the guest, at the airport I saw the Tour manager he was so busy and too awkward to approach him so what I did is I made myself busy too. by checking the van and looking for the VIP's. inside the van I feel so nervous and cold because I feel that I was being graded by the tour manager. I met Francis, Mam Glo, Ryan and Jmar francis friend. The VIPS are really nice, approachable ang down to earth. upon arrival we are schedule have our Honda Bay Island Hopping Tour! at the wharf Ryan asked me How old Iam ? Hmmmm... ( just wondering why did she asked me ) the exact words were " If you dont mind me asking , how young are u ?" I looked him in his eyes to know if there's a magic between the two of us. ( yes there is ! ). Then when we reached at the island He asked me if I have boyfriend ? I answered him back that Im available ! hahhahahaha :-). he was also offering me a job if incased I changed my mind and he was also offering his condo in pasig. he was so generous. He was also asking me if I have a sun cellular because of unlimited call and txt but unfortunately i dont have sun. Does he likes me to? I hope he does ! I hope his the one ! :-)
December 2010
I can feel the christmas spirit ! :-) on december 4, 2010 out-reach program! We will be distributing some goods of the inmates of Iwahig... Excited!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Monday, July 12, 2010
my no secret friend !
I met him online... :-)
we became friends, we chat and exchanges email
he has two sons but separated from her wife, he got a complicated life
I'm inlove with him :-)
we became friends, we chat and exchanges email
he has two sons but separated from her wife, he got a complicated life
I'm inlove with him :-)
a month of absence !
my last post is june 1 now its already july 5! been very busy!and
stressed up!
My blog today is all about my sister-inlaw,
I'm a bit disappointed to her. She never been a good sister to me and to my siblings
she always talk negative things about my family, anyways my sister in-law lied to us that her brother will be sleeping in their house so she cant accommodate my mom. I felt insulted and I felt so bad for her because In the 1st place thats the mom of his loving husband thats our mom, second she lied, 3rd i showed full respect to her mom.
May God blessed her !
stressed up!
My blog today is all about my sister-inlaw,
I'm a bit disappointed to her. She never been a good sister to me and to my siblings
she always talk negative things about my family, anyways my sister in-law lied to us that her brother will be sleeping in their house so she cant accommodate my mom. I felt insulted and I felt so bad for her because In the 1st place thats the mom of his loving husband thats our mom, second she lied, 3rd i showed full respect to her mom.
May God blessed her !
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Secrets of building a relationship
While building relationships with women, men usually pass over in silence the question about peculiarities of their behavior. This is an omission that might hardly be excused. Understanding what a girl wants will help to avoid false prejudices and considerable amount of mistakes in communication with her.
Secret #1. Building relationships with a woman, you need to get used that a stream of her thoughts never sticks to a straight line. While narrating, woman keeps to the point in the very beginning, and then she is sure to change the course. Arm yourself with patience and listen until the end of the story. You should never interrupt a girl, because she is trying to introduce the whole vivid picture of events. It is unlikely to be a lack of intelligence . on the contrary, woman is a master of narrative genre.
Secret #2. Women change their opinion easily. They are building relationships on trust, that.s why they possess a unique feature of discussing various problems with other people, before they come to the final decision. It seems somehow to be a sign of flippancy, although women are just guided by their common sense.
Secret #3. Women appreciate sensitivity. If you.d like to succeed in building relationships with a woman, show her your tears in all sincerity. Girls suppose that sensitivity is an expression of true feelings and sympathy.
Secret #4. It has never been a secret that all women are liable to shopping addiction. Buying new clothes, they are sure of acquiring necessary tools, which make them more attractive for their partners. Cultivating this addiction they will never be able to cope with, you will resolve one of the most important difficulties of relationships building.
Secret #5. Women feel guilty for being furious. Their anger is characterized as a succession of short outbursts. They try to deter aggression and feel uneasy when it comes out. Learn to forgive woman on the initial stage of building relationships, and she will apologize, even being convinced of the truth of her words.
Secret #6. Woman needs man.s support. Compliments would never be enough for a girl. Deep inside her soul, she becomes more self-confident, as you are declaring her appearance, abilities and beauty.
Secret #7. Every woman still is a little girl. She wishes she could be surrounded by your attention and be treated like a princess. Women would laugh and cry, demonstrating you their emotional cocktail. Appreciate their charm as an ability to be childish and wise at the same time.
Secret #8. Women are ambitious. They try to reach a longed-for aim, using all possible means and methods. Even building relationships, they follow closely the axiom that all is fair in love and in war.
Secret #9. Woman is usually the first to argue. She considers you should share your thoughts and feelings. She wants to know everything you.ve done and seen, and what you.re planning to do and to see. Otherwise, your girl feels sad. Attitude means, not words; bilateral exchange of information in building relationships process means twice as much for women.
Secret #10. Women consider flirt to be an evidence of man.s interest, a prelude, a first step to relationship development. If a girl happened to like someone, whose serious intentions are under doubt, he would definitely get the sack from her. No one would like to be a plaything in someone.s strange hands. Look before you leap when you start building relationships, but having leapt never look back.
Secret #11. Women are really good at driving. According to the latest researches made, women usually get men ahead in passing driving tests; women break the rules of the road and pay fines rarely. So one would better stop joking about female drivers with the tongue in his cheek.
Secret #12. Have you ever noticed that women remember all the details of any event, especially while arguing over the problem of building relationships? Actually, they keep in mind every face, every gesture, every word and every deed for a long time, so that men should put up with their complete failure in the issue.
Secret #1. Building relationships with a woman, you need to get used that a stream of her thoughts never sticks to a straight line. While narrating, woman keeps to the point in the very beginning, and then she is sure to change the course. Arm yourself with patience and listen until the end of the story. You should never interrupt a girl, because she is trying to introduce the whole vivid picture of events. It is unlikely to be a lack of intelligence . on the contrary, woman is a master of narrative genre.
Secret #2. Women change their opinion easily. They are building relationships on trust, that.s why they possess a unique feature of discussing various problems with other people, before they come to the final decision. It seems somehow to be a sign of flippancy, although women are just guided by their common sense.
Secret #3. Women appreciate sensitivity. If you.d like to succeed in building relationships with a woman, show her your tears in all sincerity. Girls suppose that sensitivity is an expression of true feelings and sympathy.
Secret #4. It has never been a secret that all women are liable to shopping addiction. Buying new clothes, they are sure of acquiring necessary tools, which make them more attractive for their partners. Cultivating this addiction they will never be able to cope with, you will resolve one of the most important difficulties of relationships building.
Secret #5. Women feel guilty for being furious. Their anger is characterized as a succession of short outbursts. They try to deter aggression and feel uneasy when it comes out. Learn to forgive woman on the initial stage of building relationships, and she will apologize, even being convinced of the truth of her words.
Secret #6. Woman needs man.s support. Compliments would never be enough for a girl. Deep inside her soul, she becomes more self-confident, as you are declaring her appearance, abilities and beauty.
Secret #7. Every woman still is a little girl. She wishes she could be surrounded by your attention and be treated like a princess. Women would laugh and cry, demonstrating you their emotional cocktail. Appreciate their charm as an ability to be childish and wise at the same time.
Secret #8. Women are ambitious. They try to reach a longed-for aim, using all possible means and methods. Even building relationships, they follow closely the axiom that all is fair in love and in war.
Secret #9. Woman is usually the first to argue. She considers you should share your thoughts and feelings. She wants to know everything you.ve done and seen, and what you.re planning to do and to see. Otherwise, your girl feels sad. Attitude means, not words; bilateral exchange of information in building relationships process means twice as much for women.
Secret #10. Women consider flirt to be an evidence of man.s interest, a prelude, a first step to relationship development. If a girl happened to like someone, whose serious intentions are under doubt, he would definitely get the sack from her. No one would like to be a plaything in someone.s strange hands. Look before you leap when you start building relationships, but having leapt never look back.
Secret #11. Women are really good at driving. According to the latest researches made, women usually get men ahead in passing driving tests; women break the rules of the road and pay fines rarely. So one would better stop joking about female drivers with the tongue in his cheek.
Secret #12. Have you ever noticed that women remember all the details of any event, especially while arguing over the problem of building relationships? Actually, they keep in mind every face, every gesture, every word and every deed for a long time, so that men should put up with their complete failure in the issue.
Clues to attract a man
What makes a woman attractive to a man?
In fact every woman sends out signals to men. Most men can detect and read your signals in a matter of seconds. The first pulses you emit are your dress and your body language.
It’s incredibly easy for a woman to attract attention from men. Just wear skin-tight, thigh-length, revealing clothing. You’ll get lots of male attention. But will it be the kind of attention you want? Fishermen insist that the fish you catch is determined by the bait you use.
Would you like to make yourself more appealing to a man who will be attracted to you as a person and not as an object? If so, remember these tips to keep in mind when trying to attract a man.
Confidence is the number one attraction. Being more confident with yourself and your surroundings will attract someone that is equal to you. You will also notice that more people are drawn to you.
Appearance is also a big issue. Your appearance and body language may catch his attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a man's interest.
Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. If he sees you when you are at your worst then he will not want to look a second time.
Give a man a reason to think about you. Wear a lingering fragrance that haunts his memory, soft clothes that he yearns to touch and a smile that he can't get out of his mind. And don’t forget to leave a little something to the imagination. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a man.
Make him feel important by focusing your full attention on him. Listen intently to what he has to say and respond with respect for his opinions, laugh at his jokes no matter how lama they are, take an interest in his interests.
And finally – don't try and be something you are not. He will be falling for a false idol and will not want to know you when he sees the real you. Let him know you're different from all the rest. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior.
In fact every woman sends out signals to men. Most men can detect and read your signals in a matter of seconds. The first pulses you emit are your dress and your body language.
It’s incredibly easy for a woman to attract attention from men. Just wear skin-tight, thigh-length, revealing clothing. You’ll get lots of male attention. But will it be the kind of attention you want? Fishermen insist that the fish you catch is determined by the bait you use.
Would you like to make yourself more appealing to a man who will be attracted to you as a person and not as an object? If so, remember these tips to keep in mind when trying to attract a man.
Confidence is the number one attraction. Being more confident with yourself and your surroundings will attract someone that is equal to you. You will also notice that more people are drawn to you.
Appearance is also a big issue. Your appearance and body language may catch his attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a man's interest.
Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. If he sees you when you are at your worst then he will not want to look a second time.
Give a man a reason to think about you. Wear a lingering fragrance that haunts his memory, soft clothes that he yearns to touch and a smile that he can't get out of his mind. And don’t forget to leave a little something to the imagination. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a man.
Make him feel important by focusing your full attention on him. Listen intently to what he has to say and respond with respect for his opinions, laugh at his jokes no matter how lama they are, take an interest in his interests.
And finally – don't try and be something you are not. He will be falling for a false idol and will not want to know you when he sees the real you. Let him know you're different from all the rest. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior.
NOT AT HIS PLACE
In the men-women relationships happen not only huge mistakes that finally lead to the catastrophes. There are also some small errors that are committed by both sides.
A woman sometimes commits some of those errors at her man’s place. If he’s a normal guy he won’t get mad, you may not even understand what’s really wrong about what you’ve done. But those small mistakes, especially if they are plenty are very annoying. It won’t demand much effort to avoid them but will show some respect to him and the place of his inhabitance.
First of all you should always remember that his place is a man’s place – this means that there aren’t supposed to be any sings of a woman. He won’t be much excited to come once to his own bathroom and find there the ranks of yours bottles, pots and tubes with the magical cremes, masks, gels and etc. Yes, all this stuff makes your beauty shine and he definitely loves the results but never interested in measures. The same thing with all the eye-shadows, lip-sticks and especially with the pantyliners. Leave all these things for you bag and apartment, try not to leave the traces of you. This stuff is supplying your everyday existence but he doesn’t want to know about it and frankly speaking doesn’t have to.
Another thing is that you shouldn’t rummage about his stuff. And do you really want to play detective? Who knows what he hides there? Do you really want to make an inventory of his porno-videos and magazines? On the other hand you make accidentally touch or move the things that have sacral meaning for him. And the rag of an indefinite color could be a scarf given him on his tenth birthday by his beloved mother.
The next point naturally following the previous one is that shouldn’t ever try to clean up his mess. By the way what’s mess for you for him can be a perfect order or the most comfortable environment. And with the garbage you may throw away some “very necessary things”. Probably he hasn’t used them for ages or even forgotten about their existence but the moment you throw them away they turn to be treasures. Also the vacuum cleaner in your hands can give you a mommy-look or which is worse a wife-look. So you’d better not shock him with such a view.
Also you shouldn’t discuss that mess with him neither raise the question of the disadvantages of his apartment. You may admire the style of his place and the way it’s decorated as much as you want or can but never criticize. It’s his castle or resort, he’s the one and only master in here and who are you to judge? Well if you have the tones of delicacy and a diploma of a professional decorator you may offer yourself to make a couple of notes or to give a piece of advice, but be very careful. If you step into his place for the first time mind that the expression on your face can say some things you’d better conceal.
If he has invited you for a self-cooked dinner than you probably will be fed up. In case it’s his first kitchen experience hope for the best but prepare for the worst – bring something eatable with you. Just in case. If he hasn’t invited be ready to find nothing but a stale slice of yesterdays’ pizza in his refrigerator. Whatever it’ll be this time your mistake would be to expect much. If he’s invited your for a movie – well you make hope for a fresh pizza and probably some beer but not for a movie. At least you will never know if the main hero has finally saved the world or not .
If you, starving, have found some food at his kitchen think twice if you are so really starving because a) it may not be very fresh and b) he’s left that for himself. Remember that you’re not at a family house where everyone’s leaving the last slice for the others – your boyfriend will remember the last bottle of beer drunk by you for some really long time.
So every woman visiting her man’s place should see it as some enemy’s disposition and act carefully not too make some strategic mistakes. Man’s apartment is a place where most of the woman’s rules of housekeeping don’t work and she shouldn’t try to reform it.
A woman sometimes commits some of those errors at her man’s place. If he’s a normal guy he won’t get mad, you may not even understand what’s really wrong about what you’ve done. But those small mistakes, especially if they are plenty are very annoying. It won’t demand much effort to avoid them but will show some respect to him and the place of his inhabitance.
First of all you should always remember that his place is a man’s place – this means that there aren’t supposed to be any sings of a woman. He won’t be much excited to come once to his own bathroom and find there the ranks of yours bottles, pots and tubes with the magical cremes, masks, gels and etc. Yes, all this stuff makes your beauty shine and he definitely loves the results but never interested in measures. The same thing with all the eye-shadows, lip-sticks and especially with the pantyliners. Leave all these things for you bag and apartment, try not to leave the traces of you. This stuff is supplying your everyday existence but he doesn’t want to know about it and frankly speaking doesn’t have to.
Another thing is that you shouldn’t rummage about his stuff. And do you really want to play detective? Who knows what he hides there? Do you really want to make an inventory of his porno-videos and magazines? On the other hand you make accidentally touch or move the things that have sacral meaning for him. And the rag of an indefinite color could be a scarf given him on his tenth birthday by his beloved mother.
The next point naturally following the previous one is that shouldn’t ever try to clean up his mess. By the way what’s mess for you for him can be a perfect order or the most comfortable environment. And with the garbage you may throw away some “very necessary things”. Probably he hasn’t used them for ages or even forgotten about their existence but the moment you throw them away they turn to be treasures. Also the vacuum cleaner in your hands can give you a mommy-look or which is worse a wife-look. So you’d better not shock him with such a view.
Also you shouldn’t discuss that mess with him neither raise the question of the disadvantages of his apartment. You may admire the style of his place and the way it’s decorated as much as you want or can but never criticize. It’s his castle or resort, he’s the one and only master in here and who are you to judge? Well if you have the tones of delicacy and a diploma of a professional decorator you may offer yourself to make a couple of notes or to give a piece of advice, but be very careful. If you step into his place for the first time mind that the expression on your face can say some things you’d better conceal.
If he has invited you for a self-cooked dinner than you probably will be fed up. In case it’s his first kitchen experience hope for the best but prepare for the worst – bring something eatable with you. Just in case. If he hasn’t invited be ready to find nothing but a stale slice of yesterdays’ pizza in his refrigerator. Whatever it’ll be this time your mistake would be to expect much. If he’s invited your for a movie – well you make hope for a fresh pizza and probably some beer but not for a movie. At least you will never know if the main hero has finally saved the world or not .
If you, starving, have found some food at his kitchen think twice if you are so really starving because a) it may not be very fresh and b) he’s left that for himself. Remember that you’re not at a family house where everyone’s leaving the last slice for the others – your boyfriend will remember the last bottle of beer drunk by you for some really long time.
So every woman visiting her man’s place should see it as some enemy’s disposition and act carefully not too make some strategic mistakes. Man’s apartment is a place where most of the woman’s rules of housekeeping don’t work and she shouldn’t try to reform it.
COMMUNICATION WITH HIM
you ever noticed that men and women think, listen and express their emotions differently? To help you understand this difference and try to prevent, or solve some of your problems in communication we have to reveal 3 secrets.
Each secret contains 3 types of information:
a) What is she doing wrong, having not the least idea of men’s habits?
b) How men respond (react) on this?
c) Which decision should one take to find new ways of building relationships?
Secret #1
It is much easier for men to talk when they see the clear aim of conversation
Starting conversation with a man, do you notice him to be stressed and confused? He seems to lose control of situation, and play a game without knowing the rules. A woman is likely to start conversation with one of the following phrases:
- Let’s talk
- Dear, I think we have to discuss our relationships.
These expressions are too vague, as they don’t give any direction of conversation. This is how you give birth to men’s fear and uncertainty. He will start to argue with you, trying to postpone conversation, or to show absolute absence of interest.
Solution:
1. When you talk to a man, let him know exactly what you want. Be more concrete, give him a kind of agenda. For example:
- Dear, let’s talk tonight. We didn’t have enough time when your mum was here last week. We should discuss how to make her next visit better.
At least now he knows what it is all about, has more time to think it over, and feels more comfortable.
2. Ask him questions, but not such short-spoken ones, as: “How is your job?” The answer will be “Fine.” You’d better ask: “What about your new project, is it really as difficult as you’ve thought?”
3. Don’t use hints, be clear. Men prefer facts. Be sincere and direct to let him know your thoughts and express his point of view with great pleasure.
Secret #2
Man thinks to himself and gives the final answer.
Hiding his fears and uncertainty, your man will never give a rash answer, which is likely to be incorrect. He will not pronounce a word until he comes to the final decision. That’s why you may frequently hear “I need to think about it”.
Woman thinks aloud! The problem is that men direct their efforts towards the result of finding solutions, while women pay more attention to the process itself. Example: Most of women discuss daily plan during breakfast: “I have so many things to do today; during lunch I’m going to visit hairdresser and take my suit from the dry cleaner’s, then I have to meet with a new client. Oh, my god, I have an appointment with Mary at five, taxi will cost me a fortune!” Man says: “I’m married to my job.”
Man thinks that woman talks too much, he can express something in 3 words, while she needs 300. He doesn’t understand that discussing of a problem is a part of taking decision process for her; he thinks that you are not able to find solution by yourself and feels obliged to find it for you.
Solution:
1. You have to discuss this secret with him in order to make him understand what it is like to “think aloud”.
2. Don’t forget to find out whether he would like to discuss the issue now or needs time to think it over.
3. Explain that making complaints is your way to release stress and find the right solution. Otherwise, he will feel responsible for making decision for you.
Secret #3
It’s difficult for men to express their emotions.
Why is it so difficult for men to share problems with women?
In the world of emotions men lose control over situation, being not the owners of their status anymore. This feeling put their emotional state under threat, as they don’t have enough skills and experience to cope with it.
Women consider men to be insensible and insensitive. It is important to understand that men callousness is a myth. They are very sensible and sensitive creatures, sometimes even more than women are.
You expect the man to clarify his feelings as fast as you do. Most of women have faster emotional reaction, so if a man is not screaming, it doesn’t mean he has no feelings.
If you suppose that a man with high IQ is as subtle a master in expressing his feelings, as he is concerning his job, you are wrong. People should learn to improve their intellectual abilities, feelings and ways of expressing themselves.
If you want to speak the same language with your partner, be patient and lead him your way. Learn a lesson from communication with the opposite sex to achieve better results and derive pleasure from them. Understanding of these 3 secrets will help you to build better relationships in you private and everyday life.
Each secret contains 3 types of information:
a) What is she doing wrong, having not the least idea of men’s habits?
b) How men respond (react) on this?
c) Which decision should one take to find new ways of building relationships?
Secret #1
It is much easier for men to talk when they see the clear aim of conversation
Starting conversation with a man, do you notice him to be stressed and confused? He seems to lose control of situation, and play a game without knowing the rules. A woman is likely to start conversation with one of the following phrases:
- Let’s talk
- Dear, I think we have to discuss our relationships.
These expressions are too vague, as they don’t give any direction of conversation. This is how you give birth to men’s fear and uncertainty. He will start to argue with you, trying to postpone conversation, or to show absolute absence of interest.
Solution:
1. When you talk to a man, let him know exactly what you want. Be more concrete, give him a kind of agenda. For example:
- Dear, let’s talk tonight. We didn’t have enough time when your mum was here last week. We should discuss how to make her next visit better.
At least now he knows what it is all about, has more time to think it over, and feels more comfortable.
2. Ask him questions, but not such short-spoken ones, as: “How is your job?” The answer will be “Fine.” You’d better ask: “What about your new project, is it really as difficult as you’ve thought?”
3. Don’t use hints, be clear. Men prefer facts. Be sincere and direct to let him know your thoughts and express his point of view with great pleasure.
Secret #2
Man thinks to himself and gives the final answer.
Hiding his fears and uncertainty, your man will never give a rash answer, which is likely to be incorrect. He will not pronounce a word until he comes to the final decision. That’s why you may frequently hear “I need to think about it”.
Woman thinks aloud! The problem is that men direct their efforts towards the result of finding solutions, while women pay more attention to the process itself. Example: Most of women discuss daily plan during breakfast: “I have so many things to do today; during lunch I’m going to visit hairdresser and take my suit from the dry cleaner’s, then I have to meet with a new client. Oh, my god, I have an appointment with Mary at five, taxi will cost me a fortune!” Man says: “I’m married to my job.”
Man thinks that woman talks too much, he can express something in 3 words, while she needs 300. He doesn’t understand that discussing of a problem is a part of taking decision process for her; he thinks that you are not able to find solution by yourself and feels obliged to find it for you.
Solution:
1. You have to discuss this secret with him in order to make him understand what it is like to “think aloud”.
2. Don’t forget to find out whether he would like to discuss the issue now or needs time to think it over.
3. Explain that making complaints is your way to release stress and find the right solution. Otherwise, he will feel responsible for making decision for you.
Secret #3
It’s difficult for men to express their emotions.
Why is it so difficult for men to share problems with women?
In the world of emotions men lose control over situation, being not the owners of their status anymore. This feeling put their emotional state under threat, as they don’t have enough skills and experience to cope with it.
Women consider men to be insensible and insensitive. It is important to understand that men callousness is a myth. They are very sensible and sensitive creatures, sometimes even more than women are.
You expect the man to clarify his feelings as fast as you do. Most of women have faster emotional reaction, so if a man is not screaming, it doesn’t mean he has no feelings.
If you suppose that a man with high IQ is as subtle a master in expressing his feelings, as he is concerning his job, you are wrong. People should learn to improve their intellectual abilities, feelings and ways of expressing themselves.
If you want to speak the same language with your partner, be patient and lead him your way. Learn a lesson from communication with the opposite sex to achieve better results and derive pleasure from them. Understanding of these 3 secrets will help you to build better relationships in you private and everyday life.
COMPATIBILITY
Many people erroneously believe that "opposites attract", and seek a partner with interests opposite to their own under the illusion that this is a good way to form an enduring bond. Partners, who get caught in this lie, often suffer painful consequences. While it is true that opposites do attract sometimes, this attraction usually doesn't hold up to the reality of everyday life and commitment.
Incompatibility remains the strongest factor contributing to breakup. Psychologists have discovered that there are certain types of incompatible relationships that are doomed to fail from the start. We call these Incompatible Relationships.
Incompatible relationships
People should be warned of the dangers of dating someone with vast differences. The following is a summary of the five most common incompatible types of relationships.
1. The Missionary Relationship
In the missionary relationship one partner is trying to convert the other person to the faith. The common denominator of the missionary relationship is the need to justify the rela¬tionship on evangelistic grounds. For starters, how ludicrous to think that you can establish a healthy bond with someone on the basis of a hidden agenda! Unsurprisingly, after hanging on to these dead-end relationships, it's even more difficult to break it off in the end. The bottom line is that when there is spiritual or religious incompatibility - get out. It's too difficult to judge the sincerity of one's spiritual quest, when the emotions of love and romance are involved. The sacrifice is usually unjustified. Missionary relationships simply don't work.
2. Sacrificial Relationship
Some women tragically apply the mission of falling for men who are emotionally "sick and dying" for their love lives. Against all odds, they attempt to love, comfort, and take care of their lovers, hoping to nurture them back to emotional health. It reminds of a children’s game -one is the nurse, and the other is the patient. If you have a tendency to hang on to needy people in order to "love" them to health, then you need to ask yourself why. Why do you have this unquenchable need to be needed? You are called to be an equal partner in a relationship, not a shrink, sur¬rogate parent, missionary, or nurse. Sacrificial relationships may seem exciting and challenging at first, but they usually end in dis¬illusionment. If this describes you, you need remedial work - get a life!
3. The Exotic Relationship
When two people from radically different cultural or ethnic backgrounds get together it’s called an Exotic relationship. At the beginning you might be intrigued by the accent, cultural differences, and mysterious demeanor of the other person. The rela¬tionship can be based on the allure of being with someone completely different in so many ways. Sure, exotic relationships are exciting and adventurous, but they're extremely impractical. Under the best of circum¬stances, dating and marriage are difficult and challenging. Before you invest time, energy, and money into an exotic relationship, consider the fact that the odds of this kind of relationship actually making it one in a million.
4. “Unequally aged” Relationship
The hallmark of the unequally aged relationship is the considerable age gap between partners. If you find yourself saying, "Yes, sir" to your partner, then you may be in this particular type of relationships. If your partner is still telling you stories about the "good îld days" in the fifties, then this is your case. These types are usually trying to compensate for emotional insecurity, or expecting their partner to fill in for Mom or Dad. Regardless of the psychological reasons behind this trend, in most cases this substantial age difference is another example of incompatible relationships.
Unequally aged relationships provide a sense of emotional or financial security at their early stage, but eventually they hit several snags of incompatibility. Energy levels can be drastically different. Cultural connecting points such as movies, historical events, music, and past trends will also be different. These things may seem trivial, but they are extremely important when you are seeking to build a long-lasting bond.
5. Rebellious Relationship
The first sign of this kind of relationship is the need to date some¬one purely out of your ‘caste’. Rebellious relationship daters choose a partner, who is exactly the opposite of everything their families would want for them. Most of the time, people engaged in this kind of relationship, are merely angry with their parents or attempting to define them¬selves as a way to establish a sense of indepen¬dence. However, there are more constructive ways to deal with anger or establish independence – understanding, forgiveness and maturity. Save yourself the pain and embarrassment by staying clear of any kind of rebellious rela¬tionship.
Compatible relationships
A relationship, by definition, is the connecting of people. Therefore, to have a successful relationship with the opposite sex you must connect on many levels. This is what is called Compatible Relationships. Example below shows that in order to truly connect with another person, you must be compatible on three general lev¬els: spiritual, physical, and social.
1. The Spiritual Connection
If you cannot connect with your partner on a spiritual level, your relationship is headed for disaster. What you believe about God, how you pray, which holidays you celebrate, which books you hold to be sacred, and your opinion on baptism are just a few components that make up your spiritual belief system. When you don't see eye to eye with your partner in these areas, then you are compromising something that is deeply ingrained in you. Your spirituality and how that is expressed is the most intense and intimate part of you. Tremendous heartache and frustra¬tion will occur, when two people are unable to connect and share this most intimate part of their lives.
2. The Physical Connection
Being sexually attracted to your partner is a prerequisite for a healthy relation¬ship. Having a spiritual connection is not enough. You must have that spark, that chemistry, that attraction that draws you to the person like a magnet. There must be "some¬thing" in the way that person looks, moves, laughs, speaks, or smiles; something that compels you to want to be with him or her. All great relationships have some element of chemistry, and you either have it or you don't.
3. The Social Connection
Some people often neglect social compatibility, though this very area creates lots of stresses on relationships. Social compatibility primarily concerns family patterns and social relating.
The old saying, "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree," usually holds true. Who you are, and many of your life perspectives stem directly from your family upbringing. If you grew up in a home in which you received love, support, encouragement and security from your parents, then you probably have a good foundation for build¬ing a happy family. If you didn't grow up in such an environment, then you would have to work harder to develop a strong bond. Some of the important issues associ¬ated with family background are holiday customs, family rules, finances, domestic responsibilities, and rearing children.
The other area of connecting at the social level deals with patterns of relating. This dimension of a relationship covers a wide variety of concerns, including social skills, communication style, and intellectual compatibility.
What does it mean to be compatible? Well, similarities between people make life together much simpler. Being together involves compromise, and people can reach these compro¬mises more easily when they share common values and inter¬ests. Sure, sometimes opposites can attract, but for a stable relationship bet on similarity.
Incompatibility remains the strongest factor contributing to breakup. Psychologists have discovered that there are certain types of incompatible relationships that are doomed to fail from the start. We call these Incompatible Relationships.
Incompatible relationships
People should be warned of the dangers of dating someone with vast differences. The following is a summary of the five most common incompatible types of relationships.
1. The Missionary Relationship
In the missionary relationship one partner is trying to convert the other person to the faith. The common denominator of the missionary relationship is the need to justify the rela¬tionship on evangelistic grounds. For starters, how ludicrous to think that you can establish a healthy bond with someone on the basis of a hidden agenda! Unsurprisingly, after hanging on to these dead-end relationships, it's even more difficult to break it off in the end. The bottom line is that when there is spiritual or religious incompatibility - get out. It's too difficult to judge the sincerity of one's spiritual quest, when the emotions of love and romance are involved. The sacrifice is usually unjustified. Missionary relationships simply don't work.
2. Sacrificial Relationship
Some women tragically apply the mission of falling for men who are emotionally "sick and dying" for their love lives. Against all odds, they attempt to love, comfort, and take care of their lovers, hoping to nurture them back to emotional health. It reminds of a children’s game -one is the nurse, and the other is the patient. If you have a tendency to hang on to needy people in order to "love" them to health, then you need to ask yourself why. Why do you have this unquenchable need to be needed? You are called to be an equal partner in a relationship, not a shrink, sur¬rogate parent, missionary, or nurse. Sacrificial relationships may seem exciting and challenging at first, but they usually end in dis¬illusionment. If this describes you, you need remedial work - get a life!
3. The Exotic Relationship
When two people from radically different cultural or ethnic backgrounds get together it’s called an Exotic relationship. At the beginning you might be intrigued by the accent, cultural differences, and mysterious demeanor of the other person. The rela¬tionship can be based on the allure of being with someone completely different in so many ways. Sure, exotic relationships are exciting and adventurous, but they're extremely impractical. Under the best of circum¬stances, dating and marriage are difficult and challenging. Before you invest time, energy, and money into an exotic relationship, consider the fact that the odds of this kind of relationship actually making it one in a million.
4. “Unequally aged” Relationship
The hallmark of the unequally aged relationship is the considerable age gap between partners. If you find yourself saying, "Yes, sir" to your partner, then you may be in this particular type of relationships. If your partner is still telling you stories about the "good îld days" in the fifties, then this is your case. These types are usually trying to compensate for emotional insecurity, or expecting their partner to fill in for Mom or Dad. Regardless of the psychological reasons behind this trend, in most cases this substantial age difference is another example of incompatible relationships.
Unequally aged relationships provide a sense of emotional or financial security at their early stage, but eventually they hit several snags of incompatibility. Energy levels can be drastically different. Cultural connecting points such as movies, historical events, music, and past trends will also be different. These things may seem trivial, but they are extremely important when you are seeking to build a long-lasting bond.
5. Rebellious Relationship
The first sign of this kind of relationship is the need to date some¬one purely out of your ‘caste’. Rebellious relationship daters choose a partner, who is exactly the opposite of everything their families would want for them. Most of the time, people engaged in this kind of relationship, are merely angry with their parents or attempting to define them¬selves as a way to establish a sense of indepen¬dence. However, there are more constructive ways to deal with anger or establish independence – understanding, forgiveness and maturity. Save yourself the pain and embarrassment by staying clear of any kind of rebellious rela¬tionship.
Compatible relationships
A relationship, by definition, is the connecting of people. Therefore, to have a successful relationship with the opposite sex you must connect on many levels. This is what is called Compatible Relationships. Example below shows that in order to truly connect with another person, you must be compatible on three general lev¬els: spiritual, physical, and social.
1. The Spiritual Connection
If you cannot connect with your partner on a spiritual level, your relationship is headed for disaster. What you believe about God, how you pray, which holidays you celebrate, which books you hold to be sacred, and your opinion on baptism are just a few components that make up your spiritual belief system. When you don't see eye to eye with your partner in these areas, then you are compromising something that is deeply ingrained in you. Your spirituality and how that is expressed is the most intense and intimate part of you. Tremendous heartache and frustra¬tion will occur, when two people are unable to connect and share this most intimate part of their lives.
2. The Physical Connection
Being sexually attracted to your partner is a prerequisite for a healthy relation¬ship. Having a spiritual connection is not enough. You must have that spark, that chemistry, that attraction that draws you to the person like a magnet. There must be "some¬thing" in the way that person looks, moves, laughs, speaks, or smiles; something that compels you to want to be with him or her. All great relationships have some element of chemistry, and you either have it or you don't.
3. The Social Connection
Some people often neglect social compatibility, though this very area creates lots of stresses on relationships. Social compatibility primarily concerns family patterns and social relating.
The old saying, "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree," usually holds true. Who you are, and many of your life perspectives stem directly from your family upbringing. If you grew up in a home in which you received love, support, encouragement and security from your parents, then you probably have a good foundation for build¬ing a happy family. If you didn't grow up in such an environment, then you would have to work harder to develop a strong bond. Some of the important issues associ¬ated with family background are holiday customs, family rules, finances, domestic responsibilities, and rearing children.
The other area of connecting at the social level deals with patterns of relating. This dimension of a relationship covers a wide variety of concerns, including social skills, communication style, and intellectual compatibility.
What does it mean to be compatible? Well, similarities between people make life together much simpler. Being together involves compromise, and people can reach these compro¬mises more easily when they share common values and inter¬ests. Sure, sometimes opposites can attract, but for a stable relationship bet on similarity.
First love!
Theoretically first love can happen in any age or not happen at all. But most people had fallen in love for the first time when they were teenagers. That exciting new experience most of us remember very well during all our life. For an adult his/her own high school problems and the problems of their children seem very funny, silly and simple especially compared with all the difficulties of adult life. Somehow we forget how tragic and full of drama life and relationships were than in our adolescence.
Than a teenager falls in love and it happens for the first time he/she feels all it’s ups and downs for the first time either. In that age we mostly enjoy ourselves and study the new emotions inside than show much interest for the inner world of our first boy/girlfriend.
Once we start to show interest to the persons of the other sex and a little later instinctively choose our first love. The relationships between two sexes will interest and trouble us during all our future life but these first steps are always the most difficult and for some of us turn to be very painful. Teenager has a growing and changing body that he/she hasn’t started to understand yet and a delicate soul which is so easy to hurt.
Adults very often don’t take this first affection for serious, they may laugh at it, preach, tell their children that they are too young to really feel anything, that his or her object isn’t a good pair for him or her, they may try obey them stop seeing their boy/girlfriend. This is all very wrong. No one can stop anybody from falling in love especially when it’s so beckoning with the novelty. Wise adults can only try to support their young comrade to pass this complicated with the least wounds and hurt. The feelings of adolescents are as changeable as their mood. So the first love usually goes very soon after it comes. The mission of people around is to show that it’s not the end of world and that a teenager is not alone, that there still stay people who love him/her and in their love he/her can’t be sure. The first love is only the first lesson to learn but it like Alphabet stays in the basic of the whole future relationships of a human.
Very often we cherish these memories a lot, sometimes idealise them, remember the first love as something very innocent and fragile. If something went wrong than some people may have some problems with starting new relationships, they may even achieve come serious complexes that will be spoiling their relationships all the time.
But there’s no such low that tells we all fall in love for the first time in our adolescence if not with our coevals, than with our favourite teaches, famous actors and pop-stars. Yes, teenagers searching an ideal love object in the real life and not finding it there can turn to TV-screen heroes, or persons who are elder and seem wiser and more experienced when the people of the same with them age. Of cause most adults don’t take these kid’s falling for them too serious. It passes as does the hysterical passion for the pop-stars. But still some people don’t fall in love at this age of first love at all, they have some boy/girlfriends in order not to differ from others, to satisfy curiosity and a booty call, they may really like the coevals they have relationships with, but still it nothing serious. For those people their first love may come later, and the feeling will be the same new and surprising for them as for the teenagers. But Bernard Show said that if you haven’t fallen in love till you’re forty you already shouldn’t do it after.
Than a teenager falls in love and it happens for the first time he/she feels all it’s ups and downs for the first time either. In that age we mostly enjoy ourselves and study the new emotions inside than show much interest for the inner world of our first boy/girlfriend.
Once we start to show interest to the persons of the other sex and a little later instinctively choose our first love. The relationships between two sexes will interest and trouble us during all our future life but these first steps are always the most difficult and for some of us turn to be very painful. Teenager has a growing and changing body that he/she hasn’t started to understand yet and a delicate soul which is so easy to hurt.
Adults very often don’t take this first affection for serious, they may laugh at it, preach, tell their children that they are too young to really feel anything, that his or her object isn’t a good pair for him or her, they may try obey them stop seeing their boy/girlfriend. This is all very wrong. No one can stop anybody from falling in love especially when it’s so beckoning with the novelty. Wise adults can only try to support their young comrade to pass this complicated with the least wounds and hurt. The feelings of adolescents are as changeable as their mood. So the first love usually goes very soon after it comes. The mission of people around is to show that it’s not the end of world and that a teenager is not alone, that there still stay people who love him/her and in their love he/her can’t be sure. The first love is only the first lesson to learn but it like Alphabet stays in the basic of the whole future relationships of a human.
Very often we cherish these memories a lot, sometimes idealise them, remember the first love as something very innocent and fragile. If something went wrong than some people may have some problems with starting new relationships, they may even achieve come serious complexes that will be spoiling their relationships all the time.
But there’s no such low that tells we all fall in love for the first time in our adolescence if not with our coevals, than with our favourite teaches, famous actors and pop-stars. Yes, teenagers searching an ideal love object in the real life and not finding it there can turn to TV-screen heroes, or persons who are elder and seem wiser and more experienced when the people of the same with them age. Of cause most adults don’t take these kid’s falling for them too serious. It passes as does the hysterical passion for the pop-stars. But still some people don’t fall in love at this age of first love at all, they have some boy/girlfriends in order not to differ from others, to satisfy curiosity and a booty call, they may really like the coevals they have relationships with, but still it nothing serious. For those people their first love may come later, and the feeling will be the same new and surprising for them as for the teenagers. But Bernard Show said that if you haven’t fallen in love till you’re forty you already shouldn’t do it after.
Love is Magic
Some say that we are born to love and that love is the meaning and the aim of our lives. Many people believe that it’s a divine magical power that connects two loving hearts. For ages people have been thinking of what love is, writing books and song about love, in the recent time – shooting movies all on the same topic. Christians would say that God teaches us to love each other, the most skeptical materialists would blame it all on the chemical processes and hormones, romantic people would stand for the theory that each of us has his or her half on the Earth. Whatever love really is – the humanity definitely loves it.
Love is opposite to selfishness, because it’s always heading to some other person but you. It’s the highest point of human’s relations development. One voluntary gives up a great part of his/her own freedom. Love is giving by it’s nature. Person feels satisfaction and happiness not from receiving but from and seeing one happy. Two individuals completing one another form some spiritual union in which one is happy because the other’s is happy and one knows that he or she loves because he or she knows he/she would do anything it takes to make the other.
Love has it’s magical power to overcome all troubles, heal illnesses, create wonders. In critical life situations it gives people the strength to survive, to hold on however tough the living gets. And it all comes from the knowledge that you’re not alone in this world.
But everyone should mind that love arises not between angels but between people with all their little sins and flows. So the mistakes, problems and conflicts in love are in fact normal, they all come from our human’s nature. But the clear feeling of love is worth all the troubles one has to walk through to gain it. As we know Rome wasn’t built in a day, the same thing with love. There’s not any perfect art of loving. It’s always a road laid with compromises, everyday battle – not with the one you love, but with yourself. That’s how love makes us better. For everyone this way is personal. You can never predict how the relationships will develop but it’s in your ability to make it better.
Some say that love lives free years, other theory gives love one more year, some don’t give it any chance. Very many people believe that a family is a grave of love. So the negative prognoses are plenty. But still there stay some true believers. And deep in the heart many of us would like to believe and do believe in love. Because it has some magic in it and all the attempts to explain and to define it are failures.
Love makes clever people loose their mind and silly ones it makes genius. Love is paradoxical in very many aspects. There are statements that love is always happiness even when it’s unhappy and at the same time that there’s both nothing worse and nothing better than it. Another variant is that you never lived till you loved, and that love is the key to life and the sense of it. We may cite very many sayings and examples. They all are true and none is final. In one thing we can be sure: one who loves sees the world in the different way when all others, things look brighter, birds sing louder, life shows itself in it’s completeness.
Love is opposite to selfishness, because it’s always heading to some other person but you. It’s the highest point of human’s relations development. One voluntary gives up a great part of his/her own freedom. Love is giving by it’s nature. Person feels satisfaction and happiness not from receiving but from and seeing one happy. Two individuals completing one another form some spiritual union in which one is happy because the other’s is happy and one knows that he or she loves because he or she knows he/she would do anything it takes to make the other.
Love has it’s magical power to overcome all troubles, heal illnesses, create wonders. In critical life situations it gives people the strength to survive, to hold on however tough the living gets. And it all comes from the knowledge that you’re not alone in this world.
But everyone should mind that love arises not between angels but between people with all their little sins and flows. So the mistakes, problems and conflicts in love are in fact normal, they all come from our human’s nature. But the clear feeling of love is worth all the troubles one has to walk through to gain it. As we know Rome wasn’t built in a day, the same thing with love. There’s not any perfect art of loving. It’s always a road laid with compromises, everyday battle – not with the one you love, but with yourself. That’s how love makes us better. For everyone this way is personal. You can never predict how the relationships will develop but it’s in your ability to make it better.
Some say that love lives free years, other theory gives love one more year, some don’t give it any chance. Very many people believe that a family is a grave of love. So the negative prognoses are plenty. But still there stay some true believers. And deep in the heart many of us would like to believe and do believe in love. Because it has some magic in it and all the attempts to explain and to define it are failures.
Love makes clever people loose their mind and silly ones it makes genius. Love is paradoxical in very many aspects. There are statements that love is always happiness even when it’s unhappy and at the same time that there’s both nothing worse and nothing better than it. Another variant is that you never lived till you loved, and that love is the key to life and the sense of it. We may cite very many sayings and examples. They all are true and none is final. In one thing we can be sure: one who loves sees the world in the different way when all others, things look brighter, birds sing louder, life shows itself in it’s completeness.
A true and funny story I have experienced
DRIVER: Ms. Pabasa naman txt ko !
ME: ( sa isip isip ko utusan daw ba AKO ! NAG DA-DAY DREAMING AKO ! Naku istorbo si manong driver)
( nag Alangan pa ako kunin ang cell nya na 3210 feeling nya nakakuha sya ng secretary sa katauhan ko )
DRIVER: ta? Anu sabi?
ME: TXT NI DAN ---- bumiyahe ka ba ? Sa bayan ka na ba "GA"?
(isip ulit ako : GA is short for PALANGA which means MAHAL or LOVE )
BADING ANG DRIVER HEHEHHE…. After ko mabasa isinauli ko sa kanya agad
ang 3210 nya! BWAHAHAHA! na full n inbox nya! (sa isip isip ko ulit: hay salamat wala na papasok na txt hindi na ako guguluhin ng driver na ito.
DRIVER: THANK YOU !
( wala pang 2 seconds humirit ulit ang driver )
MS. PAKIBURA NAMAN ANG MESSAGES KO, BAKA NAG TXT ULIT SI DAN ,
DAHAN DAHAN K BAKA MABURA MO NEW MESSAGES KO HA.
ME: IMBYERA! NAKAKALOKA ANG MGA PASABOG NI MANONG DRIVER ! HAHAHAH!
BINASA KO ANG MENSAHE NI DAN SA KANYA .
DRIVER: REPLYAN MO …. REPLYAN MO !!!!
AYAN! MAKISAMA KAYO AYOKO MAG TXT PAG NAGDRIDRIVE EH !
ME: ( DEADMA) WALK-OUT !!!!!! HINDI KO NA HININTAY NA AKO PA ANG SASAGOT NG PHONE CALL NI MANONG DRIVER HAHAHHAHAH!
MORAL LESSON : HUWAG TATABI SA DRIVER NA MAY CELLPHONE ! HAHAHAHAHA
ME: ( sa isip isip ko utusan daw ba AKO ! NAG DA-DAY DREAMING AKO ! Naku istorbo si manong driver)
( nag Alangan pa ako kunin ang cell nya na 3210 feeling nya nakakuha sya ng secretary sa katauhan ko )
DRIVER: ta? Anu sabi?
ME: TXT NI DAN ---- bumiyahe ka ba ? Sa bayan ka na ba "GA"?
(isip ulit ako : GA is short for PALANGA which means MAHAL or LOVE )
BADING ANG DRIVER HEHEHHE…. After ko mabasa isinauli ko sa kanya agad
ang 3210 nya! BWAHAHAHA! na full n inbox nya! (sa isip isip ko ulit: hay salamat wala na papasok na txt hindi na ako guguluhin ng driver na ito.
DRIVER: THANK YOU !
( wala pang 2 seconds humirit ulit ang driver )
MS. PAKIBURA NAMAN ANG MESSAGES KO, BAKA NAG TXT ULIT SI DAN ,
DAHAN DAHAN K BAKA MABURA MO NEW MESSAGES KO HA.
ME: IMBYERA! NAKAKALOKA ANG MGA PASABOG NI MANONG DRIVER ! HAHAHAH!
BINASA KO ANG MENSAHE NI DAN SA KANYA .
DRIVER: REPLYAN MO …. REPLYAN MO !!!!
AYAN! MAKISAMA KAYO AYOKO MAG TXT PAG NAGDRIDRIVE EH !
ME: ( DEADMA) WALK-OUT !!!!!! HINDI KO NA HININTAY NA AKO PA ANG SASAGOT NG PHONE CALL NI MANONG DRIVER HAHAHHAHAH!
MORAL LESSON : HUWAG TATABI SA DRIVER NA MAY CELLPHONE ! HAHAHAHAHA
Sunday, May 30, 2010
inlove?
Usually if you ask yourself “am I in love?’ it means you’re not, because when you’re fallen in love you already have no questions, this feeling is to obvious to leave any doubts. So it’s more reasonable to count the consequences of it than to look for the signs.
You can’t stop thinking of your object, he/she stays on your mind when you’re working, spending time with friends, jogging in the morning or relaxing in evening. The vision of your object is haunting your mind like a ghost and it never works when you tell yourself not to think of him or her. You remember all the time spent together, every single word, gesture and look.
Lovesickness can be compered with feather: you’re either flying high, all filled with enthusiasm and energy, that when people around start to wonder if you’re in love or you’re deeply depressed, indifferent, nervous, don’t see in life any bright sides. No third variant is possible. You sleep as a baby or suffer from insomnia. You shine and think you’re the best or feel miserable and unattractive. You are afraid to leave phone for a moment because you sure that’ll be the moment he or she will be calling.
Nothing makes a person happier when he/she realises that the feeling is mutual. People in love look better, feel better and attract more attention from the people of the other sex than they are in their normal state. When you are in love single look of your object, anything that gives you the slightest hope – and you’re already somewhere above sky.
Falling in love without reciprocity seems to be a tragedy and the end of the world. Of cause it’s not and it will pass but try to tell the one who is so unfortunately in love! Gloomy face, giving up all the everyday duties or on the opposite trying to get rid of the feeling in energetic activity – these are the signs of person in love either. Some people just can’t deal with the intense of emotions. People with unbalanced psychics can even have some suicidal ideas. But this cases are rare.
Falling in love makes you a dreamer. You see you both on the first date, long before it takes place, imagine the time you will spend together, some women start dreaming of a house and kids.
You are ready to work on yourself because your object is worth only the best. You may start a diet or go to a fitness club. Women buy tonnes of cosmetics, fill the wardrobe with new clothes. But when you’re sure that your object won’t be there you may start being rather negligent to your appearance because you’re simply not interested in anyone’s else attention.
You may start to annoy your friends with endless talks about what he ore she’s done or said. And you may notice that people around are looking at you with some mix of envy and compassion. A person in love always looks a little bit crazy and different to the others and we usually think that he/she’s totally mindless but “look at him/he” – he/she’s so very happy. When you’re in love your own problems don’t matter a thing, you don’t even notice them, but the one sad sigh of the object and the word starts ruining for you.
Falling in love is based on some chemical processes (not only on them of course), but they are the reason for the euphoria, trembling knees, heartbeating, temperature rises, loosing breath and mind at one time. These processes even change the smell of your body. In general they work like come psycho stimulators and you’re willing to see and to hear your object in search of a new portion of that sharp feeling. By the way each time we keep busy doing something we like (hobby or favourite occupation) the similar processes start in motion.
So if you find yourself in love enjoy that felling because pleasure not only makes us happy but gives us that happy look that attracts people and luck.
You can’t stop thinking of your object, he/she stays on your mind when you’re working, spending time with friends, jogging in the morning or relaxing in evening. The vision of your object is haunting your mind like a ghost and it never works when you tell yourself not to think of him or her. You remember all the time spent together, every single word, gesture and look.
Lovesickness can be compered with feather: you’re either flying high, all filled with enthusiasm and energy, that when people around start to wonder if you’re in love or you’re deeply depressed, indifferent, nervous, don’t see in life any bright sides. No third variant is possible. You sleep as a baby or suffer from insomnia. You shine and think you’re the best or feel miserable and unattractive. You are afraid to leave phone for a moment because you sure that’ll be the moment he or she will be calling.
Nothing makes a person happier when he/she realises that the feeling is mutual. People in love look better, feel better and attract more attention from the people of the other sex than they are in their normal state. When you are in love single look of your object, anything that gives you the slightest hope – and you’re already somewhere above sky.
Falling in love without reciprocity seems to be a tragedy and the end of the world. Of cause it’s not and it will pass but try to tell the one who is so unfortunately in love! Gloomy face, giving up all the everyday duties or on the opposite trying to get rid of the feeling in energetic activity – these are the signs of person in love either. Some people just can’t deal with the intense of emotions. People with unbalanced psychics can even have some suicidal ideas. But this cases are rare.
Falling in love makes you a dreamer. You see you both on the first date, long before it takes place, imagine the time you will spend together, some women start dreaming of a house and kids.
You are ready to work on yourself because your object is worth only the best. You may start a diet or go to a fitness club. Women buy tonnes of cosmetics, fill the wardrobe with new clothes. But when you’re sure that your object won’t be there you may start being rather negligent to your appearance because you’re simply not interested in anyone’s else attention.
You may start to annoy your friends with endless talks about what he ore she’s done or said. And you may notice that people around are looking at you with some mix of envy and compassion. A person in love always looks a little bit crazy and different to the others and we usually think that he/she’s totally mindless but “look at him/he” – he/she’s so very happy. When you’re in love your own problems don’t matter a thing, you don’t even notice them, but the one sad sigh of the object and the word starts ruining for you.
Falling in love is based on some chemical processes (not only on them of course), but they are the reason for the euphoria, trembling knees, heartbeating, temperature rises, loosing breath and mind at one time. These processes even change the smell of your body. In general they work like come psycho stimulators and you’re willing to see and to hear your object in search of a new portion of that sharp feeling. By the way each time we keep busy doing something we like (hobby or favourite occupation) the similar processes start in motion.
So if you find yourself in love enjoy that felling because pleasure not only makes us happy but gives us that happy look that attracts people and luck.
Thursday, April 1, 2010
El nido with my guest !
I really enjoyed my el nido trip and this time as a guide ! i was so very much excited to see a slice of paradise! hayzzz!!! how I wish I was with my boyfriend
( START LOOKING ) :-) hahahahaha !
Ill comeback in Elnido on May 6,7 and 8 heheheh !
( START LOOKING ) :-) hahahahaha !
Ill comeback in Elnido on May 6,7 and 8 heheheh !
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Blessings !
I have a new laptop now its a replacement of my stolen one !! its really expensive but i need it for my work !!!!! I have to work my ass ! to the 10th power ! all my plans are ruined!
1. I was planning to save more because i wanted to go to abroad and work... I need funds for my applications and visa.
2. I was planning to get my brother and send him to a care giver school ! grrr...
3. I was planning to visit my family in manila because i havent seen them for the past 3 years
4. I would like to buy my siblings their own phoines
5. I'll help less-fortunate( brothers and sisters ) from the remote areas of palawan.
1. I was planning to save more because i wanted to go to abroad and work... I need funds for my applications and visa.
2. I was planning to get my brother and send him to a care giver school ! grrr...
3. I was planning to visit my family in manila because i havent seen them for the past 3 years
4. I would like to buy my siblings their own phoines
5. I'll help less-fortunate( brothers and sisters ) from the remote areas of palawan.
alcoholism!!!!!!!
Ive been absent for the past 2 weeks in my blog! and Im catching it ! haha!
My sagattup family ( Association of Tourism Guides of Palawan) has been very supportive to me ! and Im thankful to God for allowing me crossed in their paths... ( AMEN ) One of our member offered me a financial help ! I have to transfer to another boarding house.
been having my problem with my landlady ! I don't have the right to question her !!!!why is she drinking alcoholic beverage everyday????? I don't know her personally, I don't know her background , its non of my damn business!but whats making me feel bad is how she became so tactless and irresponsible in handling herself when she becomes drunk . one night i was on my way home, i saw her at the street and she was so crying and drunk ,I carried her home and surprisingly the lights are off ! no electricity!I was trying to open the door of her room but it was locked , her lived in partner which happens to be drunk also was already sleeping in their room, he doesn't care for my land lady ! damn it ! im so nervous HELLO !!! WORLD !!!! ( IT REALLY SHOWS) I'm not used to that scenario my mom don't drink at all! . so I went out to the house to breath and im not aware that my land lady was following me until I heard her saying "YOU GET OUT IN MY HOUSE !!!!!! --- I really don't know where to sleep that time until one of the boarders of her open the door and let me sleep to her room but unfortunately my land lady slept with us! I cant sleep because im scared that she might grabbed a knife and stub us!!!! she was crying in the middle of the night ! then laugh, then cry then laugh ... oh my I can see Linda Blaire in her aura ! I think she is depressed and full of hatred in her heart ! what an ALCOHOLIC MOTHER CREATURE!!! and she doesn't know how to managed the effects of alcohol.
So I decided to looked for another boarding house ! Luckily I found One !!!! Now im really excited to go home ! I have found my peace of mind ! i can concentrate in my work ! God Bless Everyone !
My sagattup family ( Association of Tourism Guides of Palawan) has been very supportive to me ! and Im thankful to God for allowing me crossed in their paths... ( AMEN ) One of our member offered me a financial help ! I have to transfer to another boarding house.
been having my problem with my landlady ! I don't have the right to question her !!!!why is she drinking alcoholic beverage everyday????? I don't know her personally, I don't know her background , its non of my damn business!but whats making me feel bad is how she became so tactless and irresponsible in handling herself when she becomes drunk . one night i was on my way home, i saw her at the street and she was so crying and drunk ,I carried her home and surprisingly the lights are off ! no electricity!I was trying to open the door of her room but it was locked , her lived in partner which happens to be drunk also was already sleeping in their room, he doesn't care for my land lady ! damn it ! im so nervous HELLO !!! WORLD !!!! ( IT REALLY SHOWS) I'm not used to that scenario my mom don't drink at all! . so I went out to the house to breath and im not aware that my land lady was following me until I heard her saying "YOU GET OUT IN MY HOUSE !!!!!! --- I really don't know where to sleep that time until one of the boarders of her open the door and let me sleep to her room but unfortunately my land lady slept with us! I cant sleep because im scared that she might grabbed a knife and stub us!!!! she was crying in the middle of the night ! then laugh, then cry then laugh ... oh my I can see Linda Blaire in her aura ! I think she is depressed and full of hatred in her heart ! what an ALCOHOLIC MOTHER CREATURE!!! and she doesn't know how to managed the effects of alcohol.
So I decided to looked for another boarding house ! Luckily I found One !!!! Now im really excited to go home ! I have found my peace of mind ! i can concentrate in my work ! God Bless Everyone !
WHILE AT THE OPERATION!
HAHAHAHAHAH!!!! The guides became guests ! hahahahaha we have experienced to swim,photo opts, sun bathing, fishing, message in the island, wait for the sunset and sunrise, drink beers, snorkeling , fish feeding and we ate a lot of seafood! what more can i ask for!!!! IM LIKE A GUEST !hahahahahaha. I have enjoyed the snorkeling activity at PAMBATO DOS, I have conquer my fears in snorkeling alone !what a great experience !
We slept at pandan island !---- I wished I have someone in my life to share this experience ! :-)
We slept at pandan island !---- I wished I have someone in my life to share this experience ! :-)
Mach 6, 2010
RELIEF OPERATION ! ----- HERE WE COME !
I have put aside the bad things that happened to me last March 3, 2010,
We will be at the famous Honda bay WOOOOHOOO!!!!!!!!!!! Our dear OFW - from the US sent us 5 Balikbayan Boxes ( MEDICAL SUPPLIES, COLORS, CRSYONS, BELT, PENS and clothes) we from THE SAGATTUP( SAMAHANG GABAY TURISMO NG PALAWAN) ASSOCIATION OF TOURISM GUIDES OF PALAWAN our part is to distribute the goods from the remote islands from honda bay !!! We have decided not to accept any work on that day, and believed me its all worth it ! you cannot exchange their smile on their faces over the money you will be earning that day....
it was a lovely morning! our boat was docked at the Puerto Princesa Bay. All set! we are now ready for our RELIEF GOODS OPERATION ! so our traveling time would be 45 mins to reach the first island. ( NANAY and other care takers of the island were really excited to see us ! ---- they have been hearing this activity but they dont have any idea when it was going to happen ( SURPRISED !!!)haahhahahhhahaha .... even the tour guides pulled out some clothes in their closets so we can distribute more! then after lunch the next taget island is the famous Snake Island ! its a 4.5 kilometers curvaceous sand bar, the Island is protected and fishing is not allowed ! Tatay and his families is one of the caretakers of the Island, there are also Badjao in the island who are selling their pearls, so again they were surprised to see us and they never expected we are coming!!!! woooohooo!!!!!
It was a tiring day ! but all worth it ! I will never exchange this experience for anything else !!!! ( When you here them saying SALAMAT! ( THANK YOU) you can really feel the joy in your heart!
I have put aside the bad things that happened to me last March 3, 2010,
We will be at the famous Honda bay WOOOOHOOO!!!!!!!!!!! Our dear OFW - from the US sent us 5 Balikbayan Boxes ( MEDICAL SUPPLIES, COLORS, CRSYONS, BELT, PENS and clothes) we from THE SAGATTUP( SAMAHANG GABAY TURISMO NG PALAWAN) ASSOCIATION OF TOURISM GUIDES OF PALAWAN our part is to distribute the goods from the remote islands from honda bay !!! We have decided not to accept any work on that day, and believed me its all worth it ! you cannot exchange their smile on their faces over the money you will be earning that day....
it was a lovely morning! our boat was docked at the Puerto Princesa Bay. All set! we are now ready for our RELIEF GOODS OPERATION ! so our traveling time would be 45 mins to reach the first island. ( NANAY and other care takers of the island were really excited to see us ! ---- they have been hearing this activity but they dont have any idea when it was going to happen ( SURPRISED !!!)haahhahahhhahaha .... even the tour guides pulled out some clothes in their closets so we can distribute more! then after lunch the next taget island is the famous Snake Island ! its a 4.5 kilometers curvaceous sand bar, the Island is protected and fishing is not allowed ! Tatay and his families is one of the caretakers of the Island, there are also Badjao in the island who are selling their pearls, so again they were surprised to see us and they never expected we are coming!!!! woooohooo!!!!!
It was a tiring day ! but all worth it ! I will never exchange this experience for anything else !!!! ( When you here them saying SALAMAT! ( THANK YOU) you can really feel the joy in your heart!
March 3, 2010
This was the date i will never forget !!!!! damn those people who cant work their ass! all they know is to steal the fruit of your labor ! I hope what they took from me will help them!!!! I believed in digital Karma !
**** it was a great day because I have a guest given by mama aida. its 1:30Pm i need to fetch the guest in their respective hotel, everything was so rushed. so I left my Laptop at the office after 4 hours, I was shock to see that my laptop was not in my table! I panicked ! and ask them if they saw who stole my laptop!---- well my day was so exhausted ! I was trying to convinced myself that ronnie our computer tech was just upgrading the system of my laptop and since im out in the office so he doesnt have any choice but to take mg laptop without me knowing ( ITS A SURPRISED in other words) aheheheh.... but the when i finally called him up....he confirmed that he didnt took and went to the office!!!!! OUCH!!!!! its really true! my laptop is gone.... so after the Underground river tour I asked the permission of my guest that i wont be able them to accompany going to their hotel, because i have to report the incident at the police station. my guest were very supportive and concern so they drop me at the police station...... been so tired the whole day ! I have to prepare for tomorrows big event ! the relief operation !
**** it was a great day because I have a guest given by mama aida. its 1:30Pm i need to fetch the guest in their respective hotel, everything was so rushed. so I left my Laptop at the office after 4 hours, I was shock to see that my laptop was not in my table! I panicked ! and ask them if they saw who stole my laptop!---- well my day was so exhausted ! I was trying to convinced myself that ronnie our computer tech was just upgrading the system of my laptop and since im out in the office so he doesnt have any choice but to take mg laptop without me knowing ( ITS A SURPRISED in other words) aheheheh.... but the when i finally called him up....he confirmed that he didnt took and went to the office!!!!! OUCH!!!!! its really true! my laptop is gone.... so after the Underground river tour I asked the permission of my guest that i wont be able them to accompany going to their hotel, because i have to report the incident at the police station. my guest were very supportive and concern so they drop me at the police station...... been so tired the whole day ! I have to prepare for tomorrows big event ! the relief operation !
Friday, February 26, 2010
ooooppsss meeting with the tourguides
I have a meeting with the tour guides about the donation of our brothers and sisters abroad. what we will do to the 5 boxes they sent....? hmmm.... lets see whats their plan? but definitely that will be donated to the satellite clinics...God Bless Every one !!! :-)
Love of my life !!!
I haven't met you.... i hope its soon! been praying for you everyday that you'll be safe and happy.... Every night before I sleep, I'll make it sure that I'm hugging my pillow and that represents you ! I love you ! whoever you are ! Love will find it way....
MY STORE
I'm a tour guide, a travel agent and now im engaging myself in selling souvenir items... hahahhaha I wished It will become successful. anyway Im sick right now I got fever but this wont stop me from working..
Thankful to my Guest!
I would like to thank Amadeus my guest for trusting me to handle his Palawan vacation, I was really honored to meet a Traveler Doctor ! hahahaha... I Didn't had any problems with sir deo. He was A Doctor with a great passion for traveling. I wished I could be just like him, travel travel and travel...
Thursday, February 18, 2010
diet !!!!!!!!!!!!
Im in the office right now!im sitting at my desk and planning for my diet program... Goodluck to myself! hehehehhehehe!
1. No eating at night
2. 1 cup of carbo for lunch
3. NO skipping of breakfast
4. have a coffee !!!! ( nah!!! I cant remove it its my passion)
5. magic potion ! heheheheehehe (my fairy Godmother gave it to me )
LETS SEE IF THIS WILL WORK !!!!
I NEED TO LOOSE WEIGHT BEFORE APRIL WHOA !!!!
STILL HAVE A MONTH !
1. No eating at night
2. 1 cup of carbo for lunch
3. NO skipping of breakfast
4. have a coffee !!!! ( nah!!! I cant remove it its my passion)
5. magic potion ! heheheheehehe (my fairy Godmother gave it to me )
LETS SEE IF THIS WILL WORK !!!!
I NEED TO LOOSE WEIGHT BEFORE APRIL WHOA !!!!
STILL HAVE A MONTH !
A sad story!
Good morning everyone !!!!!
I have spoke to one of my girl friend back in college last night ,we missed singing with the group!!! both of us are member of glee club during our college years!now she's in Dubai married to her long time boyfriend but unfortunately she told me that last November she lost her baby! :-( tsk..tsk.. 2 months pregnant ! i felt so so sad for her! Anyway it happens for a reason ! i told her to try again and this time you have to be extra careful!
I have spoke to one of my girl friend back in college last night ,we missed singing with the group!!! both of us are member of glee club during our college years!now she's in Dubai married to her long time boyfriend but unfortunately she told me that last November she lost her baby! :-( tsk..tsk.. 2 months pregnant ! i felt so so sad for her! Anyway it happens for a reason ! i told her to try again and this time you have to be extra careful!
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
This is a problem with me ! I easily fall inlove !
oh my this is a major problem to me ! i easily fall for someone whom i dont know ! it sucks!!!!! I met him over the net for the past 7 months, we exchange ideas about Life... now he is very open to me with her greatest love ! damn! I envy her ! i wished i was the one he loved ! I get hurt if he is closing the possibilities that he may meet someone other than her greatest love ! what a life damn so unfair !
Today! I feel so sad because, I wanted to visit my family in manila but I cant!
my schedule doesnt permit me and my budget also. I wanted to bring my siblings to a fine restaurant, go shopping for their needs and watch movies with them.... but First things first I need to prioritized what is essential.
my schedule doesnt permit me and my budget also. I wanted to bring my siblings to a fine restaurant, go shopping for their needs and watch movies with them.... but First things first I need to prioritized what is essential.
Hi, I'm Anne. Thank you for visiting my site.
I am a Filipina .Born in Quezon City Philippines , grew up in Manila, spent 3 years in Tarlac, and now Im in my 7th year here in Puerto Princesa City.
At 16 after highschool graduation I worked as Service Crew at a pizza parlor, 18 Back up- Vocals a show-band at night , 20 Starbucks barista , 22 call center agent, 24 cashier at a gasoline station, 25 hotel-frontdesk , an on call food attendant and at 26 I became a Licensed Tourguide to present
while at work , I manage to go to college taking up B.S. Psychology I didn’t finished it because of financial problem. Then I took up B.S. Computer Engineering since it’s a very expensive course I decided to stop and concentrate in my work. 2005 when I finally decided to continue my studies this time I took up B.S. Hotel and Restaurant Management it was April 4, 2009 when I finished the degree.
I do believe that what you have experience in the past, it reflects of who and what you are now.
I belong to a thousand broken families here in the Philippines, I don’t know exactly what really happened that time but all I know is my mom fall out of love with my dad which I can’t blamed her. My mom got married when she was just only 21 years old, my dad was then 41, and they have been blessed with six beautiful children.
One day my dad came home, but my mom already left him. ……
Inspite of what happened to my family and all the criticisms we heard. I never gave up!!!! What had happened in the past is now a part of me.
I enjoy listening music ( classical, pop, ballad, rnb and acoustic), I love playing guitar as my souce of outlet when Im broken hearted ( Beginner ). I love to travel and see the world !
I love reading ( esp. TUESDAYS with MORRIE) , I love designing, tequila,beaches,my coffee!!!!
Now I’m a in my mid-late 20’s HAHHAHAHAHAH!!! not to mention my exact age! I was thinking that if my mom got married at the age of 21 and she didn’t became happy in her married life therefore I should have to wait at the right time. I was too scared to get involved into a relationship if I’m not sure with my feelings, I don’t like to waste time investing emotions . If there’s a calling for me to be part of the lonely hearts club! Well so be it. Hehehehe
I’m not hypocrite that I don’t feel the loneliness inside, but what can I do……????
Do u believed that there is somewhere out there for me? Is he tall? Is he a good looking? Is he educated? Is he also come from a broken family? I’m too tired thinking of him
I need to love and to be loved!!!!!
My dad is my inspiration! I give all the credit to JOSE for my interest in writing this blog! He was now 74 years old, oh!!! How I wish Jose would reach 99, dad I love you so much! I wished I have all the powers to get u there. You wait for me ! just be strong!
I am a Filipina .Born in Quezon City Philippines , grew up in Manila, spent 3 years in Tarlac, and now Im in my 7th year here in Puerto Princesa City.
At 16 after highschool graduation I worked as Service Crew at a pizza parlor, 18 Back up- Vocals a show-band at night , 20 Starbucks barista , 22 call center agent, 24 cashier at a gasoline station, 25 hotel-frontdesk , an on call food attendant and at 26 I became a Licensed Tourguide to present
while at work , I manage to go to college taking up B.S. Psychology I didn’t finished it because of financial problem. Then I took up B.S. Computer Engineering since it’s a very expensive course I decided to stop and concentrate in my work. 2005 when I finally decided to continue my studies this time I took up B.S. Hotel and Restaurant Management it was April 4, 2009 when I finished the degree.
I do believe that what you have experience in the past, it reflects of who and what you are now.
I belong to a thousand broken families here in the Philippines, I don’t know exactly what really happened that time but all I know is my mom fall out of love with my dad which I can’t blamed her. My mom got married when she was just only 21 years old, my dad was then 41, and they have been blessed with six beautiful children.
One day my dad came home, but my mom already left him. ……
Inspite of what happened to my family and all the criticisms we heard. I never gave up!!!! What had happened in the past is now a part of me.
I enjoy listening music ( classical, pop, ballad, rnb and acoustic), I love playing guitar as my souce of outlet when Im broken hearted ( Beginner ). I love to travel and see the world !
I love reading ( esp. TUESDAYS with MORRIE) , I love designing, tequila,beaches,my coffee!!!!
Now I’m a in my mid-late 20’s HAHHAHAHAHAH!!! not to mention my exact age! I was thinking that if my mom got married at the age of 21 and she didn’t became happy in her married life therefore I should have to wait at the right time. I was too scared to get involved into a relationship if I’m not sure with my feelings, I don’t like to waste time investing emotions . If there’s a calling for me to be part of the lonely hearts club! Well so be it. Hehehehe
I’m not hypocrite that I don’t feel the loneliness inside, but what can I do……????
Do u believed that there is somewhere out there for me? Is he tall? Is he a good looking? Is he educated? Is he also come from a broken family? I’m too tired thinking of him
I need to love and to be loved!!!!!
My dad is my inspiration! I give all the credit to JOSE for my interest in writing this blog! He was now 74 years old, oh!!! How I wish Jose would reach 99, dad I love you so much! I wished I have all the powers to get u there. You wait for me ! just be strong!
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